i went on cafe astrology for you and pulled the synatry for you two... it looks pretty nice..
i copied below:04/16/1984 Aspect 12/17/1974 Orb/Value
Sun Trine Sun 1.56 364
Sun Trine Mercury 3.27 136
Mercury Trine Venus 0.57 121
Venus Trine Neptune 0.46 67
Venus Opposition Pluto 1.36 -55
Jupiter Sextile Jupiter 1.38 47
Saturn Trine Jupiter 3.15 44
Saturn Trine Saturn 2.43 45
Uranus Square Jupiter 2.08 -74
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 3.17 63
Neptune Conjunction Venus 3.18 83
Neptune Sextile Uranus 0.05 55
Pluto Conjunction Uranus 0.26 85
1110 -129 981
Inter-planetary aspects
The following aspects between planets concern the possible relationships between two charts: especially the emotional and romantic relationship, but also aspects on social, intellectual, and spiritual levels.
The values next to the orbs in the chart above are part of a rating system. Keep in mind that these figures serve only as a possible guideline to which aspects may be considered easy or challenging. Analysis of a relationship is of course very complex. While some aspects can be considered, on their own, difficult for most, some people will have an easier time with them, and the same is true of easy aspects. As well, all relationships will, and should, have a mix of easy and challenging aspects.
Always use your own logic and intuition. This is the case for anything you read in the report, on the site, on other sites, and in books. These are guidelines and possibilities only, and are not meant to pass judgment on a relationship. Read more about these combinations on Cafe Astrology (Synastry/Relationship Astrology category), on other astrology sites, and in astrology books.
364 Trine Sun - Sun
Positive aspect: It's an excellent aspect for a union because neither has to explain to the other about his or her life goals and overall personality. The two people complement each other in basic ways. Although every relationship has its struggles and conflicts, this aspect helps strengthen your relationship because there is an overall understanding and you support one another at the end of the day.
136 Trine Sun - Mercury
Positive aspect: They are able to solve problems when they put their heads together. Respect for each other's intelligence. Good understanding between the two persons and intellectual interests in common. Similar or harmonious type of curiosity.
121 Trine Mercury - Venus
Positive aspect: A relationship which will be agreeable, they will like to speak to each other, have a good intellectual understanding, their tastes will be very similar, they will like to share their feelings with each other.
83 Conjunction Venus - Neptune
Positive aspect: Favorable union, they have the same artistic tastes in common, their life will sometimes be full of fantasy.
-74 Square Jupiter - Uranus
Negative aspect: An unfavorable union, nothing in common.
67 Trine Venus - Neptune
Positive aspect: Favorable union, they have the same artistic tastes in common, their life will sometimes be full of fantasy.
-55 Opposition Venus - Pluto
Negative aspect: A very strong passion but destructive, to be avoided if at all possible. Jealousy, possessiveness, and resentment are very possible. If the relationship ends, it is difficult to remain friends, as one person feels burned.
44 Trine Jupiter - Saturn
Positive/Supportive aspect: This is not a defining element of compatibility, but it is supportive. A favorable union, a joyful family life. Thanks to Saturn, this couple rarely enters any adventure lightly and instead tends to work out and think things through. Many plans may be made together.